femmE-powerment coachING: in-person and online options

INTRO

After 20 years in service, sales, and management roles, hundreds of uncomfortable, iffy, icky situations with men…
After 20 years of being in relationships where I either had no boundaries and lost myself completely in them or I was so controlling to keep myself from being hurt that I couldn’t let a man fully in…

Because even though I was confident and strong and stood up for others, when it came to the gray areas with men, I would collapse and acquiesce, please, or allow boundaries to be crossed…and carried guilt and shame with me.
After 38 years of being told what to think, how to think, what I was feeling, what I should do, what I shouldn’t do, how to dress, what to believe, who to be and how to be in this world…
I was guided— I believe by the Divine Feminine— by my own sexual healing journey to step onto this path of Feminine Dominance.

It is here, as HER, that I have been able to recover my power. To feel courageous and brave enough to allow ALL my emotions to come through— and become more powerful overall. To be able to access my rage as much as my joy, as much as my grief, as much as my pleasure…SHE has set me free.
And in my learning of how to feel safe around men, having a safe container, of having conscious and consensual communication with men, I have been able to define my desires, to express my needs. Powerfully, lovingly, and with total authority within myself.

And I also learned how to surrender. How to let go. How to trust. How to help me feel safe within MYSELF in intimacy with men.

Her role in my life has changed me forever…and I would love to help you be able to stand in your power too.

Because it’s not about the tools. It’s not about the whips, the rope, the clothes…it is a state of BEING.

It is the Dominatrix Energetix and stepping into the embodiment of the FEMME-power that every great Queen and Goddess possesses.

And it it time for you to reclaim it for yourself.

fEMME-POWERMENT coaching
in-Person option

You, as someone who desires to become FEMME-powered will:

Awakening the Goddess within— bringing the Temple home again.

One of my greatest joys is introducing concepts of Sensual Temple Arts into the boudoir with couples. To teach and guide them on a sensual path of exploration. We go over mindset, communication practices, incorporating new play in the bedroom. I show them various tools and toys, explain the significance and power of them.

I guide them as well how to pleasure their partner.

This is an intimate, sacred practice, that I find moving and touching. There is a vulnerability piece that is shared, yet because there is a guide and coach with them, they are able to navigate new waters that they have not before.

Bringing a coach into the bedroom with you creates an added layer of comfort, sense of safety, and opens up a level of vulnerability that you could not have otherwise.

• Breathwork- There is tremendous power in the breath— whether it is being held or being circulated in deep ways throughout the body. Breath is the access point to the deepest parts of ourselves, and bringing them to the surface.

• Communication- Guiding you how to express your boundaries, your desires, and opening a new path to connection. Sharing from a loving and courageous place rather than from a defensive one.

• Energy work- When things come up (as they do in intimate settings) such as emotional wounds, past traumas, fears, limiting beliefs, I help you navigate through them and clear as much of the debris as possible.

• Goddess worship- I work with the female identified partner in how to embody the Goddess within her, and guide the male identified partner how to recognize, adore, and worship her.

• Impact play- Spanking, flogging, paddling, caning

• Intimate massage- Walking you through how to give yoni, lingam, and prostate massages— extremely sensual and powerful

• Rituals and energy play- Customizing rituals that are just for you that rev up your mood and get you from ho-hum to OMG.

• Role play- Providing a safe space for each to try the dominance and the submissive experience, in a way that is sensual, loving, and profound.

• Sensation play- Sensory deprivation, sensory overload, temperature play, fingernails, wax play

• Tantra- Neo-tantric practices focusing on breath and energy, releasing trauma and stagnant energy

• While I will be the guide, the teacher, the mentor— I do not engage in any sexual act. Any sexual acts remain between the couple only.

intimacy coaching online option

Powerful in its own way.

intimacy coaching dinner + dominance

An intimate and sacred opportunity. You will take Mistress Anisha for an opulent meal and have an enlightened experience. Mistress Anisha, a seductress of high mental and emotional intellect, with deep esoteric and spiritual knowledge, will engage and invite you at your most intimate core. Following dinner is a dominance session at the length of her choosing, though play is typically 2-3 hours.

This is for the conscious and conscientious man who recognizes a goddess and chooses to worship Her with that level of regard, respect, and emulation.

Typically a 6 hour experience, but is subject to change depending on how you behave.